Day 28: What is your love language?

So, for those of you who don't know what a love language is, its how you express love to others and how others express love toward you. There are 5 of them and I'm going to explain them to you quickly.

1.) Words of Affirmation: Basically people with this love language need to hear positive things. They like to hear why you love them. Words are the most important thing to them.

 

2.) Quality Time: Some people just need someone to take the time and sit down and be with them. No distractions, just them. 

 3.) Receiving/Giving Gifts: It really doesn't matter how big or how small the gift is, as long as its given from the heart, its perfect!

4.) Acts of Service: Sometimes, people just need a little extra help, so doing things that eases stress for them shows them love. 

5.) Physical Touch: A hug, kiss, holding hands, or even a simple pat on the back is exactly what some people need. 

Alright, so now that you have the idea, my love languages are Physical Touch, which is how I feel love, and Gift Giving is how I show love. Yes, you can have more than one, but you will always have a stronger one. Like when I need to feel love, I want nothing more than to be held, to be close to that special person. But when I show love, I need to give gifts, I hate when people don't let me buy things for them. Don't get me wrong, I still love getting gifts, the little ones are my favorite, but sometimes I just want a hug. Some of my behaviors make sense now huh?

Wanna learn your love language? 

http://www.5lovelanguages.com/assessments/love/