Make A List Of Alphbetical Advice:

Analyze every situation from a different perspective. 
Better yourself before you try to help others.
Crying doesn't make you weak but it does make your eyes all red and puffy.  
Define yourself, don't let others do it for you, they are never accurate.
Enchanting people are pleasant company.
Fear isn't a weakness, it's only an obstacle you have yet to overcome.
Give gifts just because you can.
Happiness is the best gift you can give to yourself.
Inspire those around you.
Just keep swimming. =)
Kiss your love first thing every morning and before you fall asleep.
Love intensely.
Maybe you're the problem.
Never laugh at anyone's hopes, dreams or goals no matter how silly you think they are.
Opinions are allowed to be different from yours.
Picture how you want your life to be in 5 years and make it happen.
Quoting yourself is stupid, if you really say something so profound, someone else will quote you.
Reproduction may not be the best option for you.
Strength is measured by how many times you've kept going instead of giving up.
Take a break from reality every once in a while and relax.
Understand that you can't control every situation. 
Variation is a good thing.  
Wisdom comes from experience.
XX means you can't drive but can make one hell of a sandwich. Deal with it. ;)
Yesterday is never going to happen again, are you proud to put it in your history?
Zombie apocalypse...be ready for it!

Day 23: 5 things you are afraid of and why

1.) Spiders- You know why...
2.) How I'm gonna die- It's just scary for me to think about the fact that my life could end at any second and I don't know when or how. So I guess cause it's a mystery.
3.) Becoming a mom- I'm afraid I wont be a good one.
4.) The future- That it wont be what I want it to be.
5.) Not marrying the love of my life- Because then I'll never know true love...

Day 22: 5 things you are thinking of at this moment

1.) Once Upon A Time
2.) Once Upon A Time
3.) Heart Break =(
4.) Once Upon A Time
5.) I'm such a nerd...^_^

Day 21: 5 items that mean a lot to you

1.) My ring
2.) The pictures of me and my dad
3.) The last thing my uncle gave me
4.) The frame with pictures of me and my boys
5.) A diary I'm keeping for a loved one

Day 20: 5 things you learned in school that you will never use

1.) Cursive
2.) How to find "X"
3.) Geometry
4.) Geography

5.) Geology

Day 19: 5 shows you have seen every episode of

1.) Buffy the Vampire Slayer
2.) Firefly
3.) Wonderfalls
4.) That 70's Show
5.) Friends

Day 18: 5 annoying habits you have

1.) I leave half drunk water bottles all over the place.
2.) I put old food back into the fridge when I don't want to deal with it.
3.) I never remember if I locked the door.
4.) I sometimes forget to turn off the oven.
5.) I leave the toilet seat down forcing guys to put it up every time they pee. That right there is probably the deal breaker...huh? ;P

Day 17: 5 songs you will never get tired of

1.) The Kill by 30 Seconds to Mars
2.) Savior by Rise Against
3.) Tonight by Seether
4.) I Hate Everything About you by Three Days Grace
5.) I Miss You by Blink 182

Day 16: 5 thoughts you believe that people think when they first meet you

1.) She's short.
2.) She's intimidating.
3.) She's hot.
4.) She's weird.
5.) She's blond.

Day 15: 5 things you want to say to 5 different people but cant

1.) Did you forget about me? Cause it feels like it.
2.) I miss you...like crazy...and when I saw you the other day I knew things would never be the same between us again.
3.) What am I to you? A game? Or do I matter? I'd like to know.
4.) I don't understand you...and it's annoying.
5.) I kinda wish things went differently between us...I don't like what happened.

Day 14: 5 things that make you happy

1.) Getting my nails done
2.) Getting my hair done
3.) Spending time with my best friend
4.) Cute little texts from a boy
5.) Seeing his smile and knowing I caused it ^_^

Day 13: 5 favorite things in your closet/room

In my room I love:

1.) My wall of mirros!
2.) My walk in closet!
3.) My retro telephone!
4.) My stuffed animals!
5.) This picture frame full of photos from high school. =)

Day 12: 5 things you've done today

On 9/19/12 I:
1.) Went to Physio
2.) Went to Biology
3.) Went to Stats
4.) Went to work
5.) Came home and curled up in bed. =)

Day 11: 5 items you wish you had

1.) Pink phone booth.
2.) Victorian fainting couch.
3.) Air conditioner.
4.) Coffee bar.
5.) Home gym.

Day 10: 5 things you like about yourself

1.) I'm confident with who I am.
2.) I'm motivated.
3.) I'm assertive. 
4.) I'm a people person.
5.) I'm narcissistic.

Day 9: 5 things that make you cry

1.) When people say things about me that aren't true.
2.) When people assume things about me that they heard.
3.) When things don't go my way and every thing goes wrong at once.
4.) When I get super stressed out and depressed.
5.) When I think about my dad dying.

Day 8: 5 foods you will never get tired of

1.) Pasta
2.) Chocolate Ice Cream
3.) Salad (weird I know)
4.) Pizza Rolls
5.) Dino Chicken Nuggets!

Day 7: 5 things you want to ask your future self

1.) Did I end up with a PhD?
2.) I'm married to the love of my life, right?
3.) How many kids did I have?
4.) Where do I live?
5.) Am I happy?

Day 6: 5 things you wish you could tell yourself last year

1.) Go to class, study, do assignments, and try harder.
2.) Save your money...you will want it.
3.) You'll be alright...I promise.
4.) It's ok to cry...it doesn't make you weak.
5.) Take care of yourself...you cant do everything.

Day 5: 5 things currently to your right

1.) Pink blanket =)
2.) Pink Chair =)
3.) Pink princess pillow =)
4.) Pink build a bear kitty =)
5.) Pink fluffy unicorn! ^_^

Day 4: 5 places you never want to visit

1.) Deepest trench in the ocean.
2.) Mount Everest's highest peek.
3.) India...I don't know why, but I've never been fascinated by their culture.
4.) Middle East...again...culture thing.
5.) Liechtenstein...had to represent it in the economic summit...it sucked. 

Day 3: 5 secrets about your childhood

1.) I use to sneak out of nap time to watch soap opera...seriously.
2.) One time I fell off my bunk bed and told my mom that I ran into a wall because I was afraid that she would take apart my bunk bed.
3.) In kindergarten I liked pretty much all the guys in my class, I was a lot boy crazy even then. I also had a kindergarten boyfriend...I don't remember his name anymore.
4.) I use to make my barbies model because even then I was convinced that I was gonna be a model some day.
5.) I was obsessed with wanting to be a twin. I always thought two of me would be awesome!

Day 2: 5 talents you have

1.) I act...I'm not too bad at it either. =)
2.) I write poetry...if that counts. =)
3.) I also write short stories! =)
4.) And I write scripts. =)
5.) I model! Seriously...its a talent to look that good in pictures. ;)

Day 1: 5 nicknames you've had

1.) Kitty-I like this one. =)
2.) Kat-I go by this one alot! =)
3.) Cat Eater- Didn't like this one, but it was my nick name back in high school. I got it cause of the picture posted above. My lovely guy friends called me this. =P
4.) Poly- Short for Polynesian, given to me back in high school. Again, my guy friends gave me this one. =P
5.) Tentacula- I hated this one, but my bestest guy friends gave it to me...and I loved them. It was annoying because they got other people to call me it.

Friends, Romans, Countrymen; Lend me your ears...

Yes, it is true. I've decided to do another 30 day challenge! I know I'm not very good at keeping up with them but alas, I am narcissistic and love to talk about myself. So without further ado, here is the new challenge. Anyone brave enough to do it with me?

Day 1: 5 nicknames you've had.
Day 2: 5 talents you have.
Day 3: 5 secrets about your childhood.
Day 4: 5 places you never want to visit.
Day 5: 5 things currently to your right.
Day 6: 5 things you wish you could tell yourself last year.
Day 7: 5 things you want to ask your future self.
Day 8: 5 foods you will never get tired of.
Day 9: 5 things that make you cry.
Day 10: 5 things you like about yourself.
Day 11: 5 items you wish you had.
Day 12: 5 things you've done today.
Day 13: 5 favorite things in your closet/room.
Day 14: 5 things that make you happy.
Day 15: 5 things you want to say to 5 different people but cant.
Day 16: 5 thoughts you believe that people think when they first meet you.
Day 17: 5 songs you will never get tired of.
Day 18: 5 annoying habits you have.
Day 19: 5 shows you have seen every episode of.
Day 20: 5 things you learned in school that you will never use.
Day 21: 5 items that mean a lot to you.
Day 22: 5 things you are thinking of at this moment.
Day 23: 5 things you are afraid of and why.
Day 24: 5 ideas you have/had for your (future) wedding.
Day 25: 5 careers you wanted growing up and why.
Day 26: 5 pets you've had.
Day 27: 5 material things that you "cant" live without.
Day 28: 5 all time favorite movies.
Day 29: 5 things you find entertaining that your friends find boring.
Day 30: 5 ways you hope to change the world. 

Since 30 days has September, I will be officially starting this on September 1st. And hopefully I can keep up. Wish me luck! Also, everyone should do this with me! =) 

Day 30: A photograph of yourself today + three good things that have happened in the past 30 days

1.) I've been a big sister for 16 years now! ^_^
2.) I'm doing better in school and only have one year left before I graduate! =)
3.) I went on a really amazing date with a really amazing guy! ;)

Day 29: Something you could never get tired of doing

Looking hot ;)

Seriously...

I could never get tired of this.

In other words...I will always be narcissistic. ;D

Day 28: In this past month, what have you learned?

I've learned more about my self. How strong I am. Who I am. Who I'm becoming. How I handle things. How to live. How to survive. How to deal. How to take care of things myself. How to make myself better. How to forgive. How to move on. How to be resourceful. How to cook for myself. How to be ok. I've learned how to be human. I've learned how to fix mistakes. I've learned that life isn't always fair. I've learned how to get things for myself. I've learned how to make my way in this world. I've learned that it's ok to ask for help. But most importantly I've learned that the only person I should be better than is the person I was yesterday. And that is what I work on everyday. I've learned to just be me. And she keeps getting better. =)

Day 27: What kind of person attracts you?

Strong Willed
Creative
Funny
Independent
Narcissistic
Compassionate
Intelligent
Caring
Impulsive
Daring
Sweet
Loving
Honest
Assertive
Nerdy
Attractive
Social
Friendly
Determined
Brave
Kind Hearted
Accepting
Gentle
Artsy
Sarcastic
Leader
Motivating
Resourceful
Protective
Understanding
Supportive
Mine <3

Day 26: A photo of somewhere you want to go

I would love to visit Rome one day. <3

Day 25: Who are you?

I'm a little girl in a big world who's afraid of being forgotten. I'm a story in progress. A life being lived. A beautiful mess. I'm a chance at doing something great in life. I'm a girl who needs someone to believe in her. But most importantly I'm a girl who cant be defined by what other people think of me. <3

Day 24: A photo of something that means a lot to you

One day...this will happen.

Day 23: 15 facts about you

1.) I'm the most compassionate narcissistic you will ever meet. ;D
2.) I use to not know how to cook but now I'm pretty dang good at it. =)
3.) I don't really like to read but when I do I read nerdy psych books. ^_^
4.) I honestly like the T.V. show My Little Pony thanks to my friend Bobbie. =P
5.) I have an evil cat and sometimes I love him and sometimes I don't. =/
6.) I wish I could be a model, but I'm too short and nowhere near skinny enough. =(
7.) I love sleeping...but I'm an insomniac. -.-
8.) I love eating Dino chicken nuggets! Seriously. =D
9.) I eat like a fat person. It's pretty gross. Surprisingly I'm really not that fat. =/
10.) I have one more year until I graduate with a BA in Psychology. =)
11.) I plan on going back and getting a BA in Anthropology. =D
12.) I really love studying human cultures and behaviors. ^_^
13.) I wish I could have a wild cat as a pet. =)
14.) I like to be alone...sometimes. =/
15.) I'm not always a romantic person...but lately I've wanted nothing more then for someone to sweep me off my feet...I just don't see that happening tho. =/

Day 22: A letter to someone who has hurt you recently

I'm not really sure if I can do this one. I've been hurt but I don't really think it's necessary for me to write a letter to them. I just cant. I don't know what I could say to them. That they hurt me? I think that they know that. Or maybe they don't. I could tell them that I've forgiven them. But maybe I haven't. By writing a letter to them I don't believe there would be anything said that they didn't already know. And in all honesty I don't think it would do me any help to write them. So I just can't do this one.

Day 21: A photo of something that makes you happy

 I really love food!

 Especially when I make it.

 And its really yummy!

And it makes me happy cause I'm actually kinda good at it! ^_^

Day 20: The meaning behind your blog name

So this can be one of three things: How I sign my posts, my URL, or the title of my blog.
I sign my posts as "Kitty" because that is a nickname, probably my favorite one.
My URL is "30thingsin30days" because originally I was just going to do one 30 day challenge, but I enjoyed it way to much...so no its a blog for 30 day challenges, although I'm not always good at keeping up with this blog.
Finally my blog title "Letting The Kat Out Of The Bag" was a phrase meaning to let a secret out only they used "cat" but I use "Kat" because its my secrets you get to learn.
I know they aren't super creative, but they do represent me. So I like them. =)

Day 19: A picture of something you want to do before you die

Needs no explanation. I will do this. =)

Day 18: 5 things that irritate me about the opposite/same sex

Dear Males,
1.) Please don't rush us when we're shopping. Yes, we have to try on everything and make sure we don't look fat. And we expect you to be honest.
2.) Its sweet that you think we look beautiful in sweats and messy hair, but if we spend the time each day to get ready and make ourselves look gorgeous, so please don't tell us we look the same and it doesn't matter if we dress up for you. It does matter so appreciate it. 
3.) How come you get to eat so much. Its not fair. If I eat as much as you I get fat. So don't eat a lot in front of me...it makes me jealous!
4.) When you get married, it's your day also. Don't let your future wife make it a boring thing to plan. Do something fun! Pick the cake topper or register the weirdest things you can find. Its both your day, not just hers. So man up and help plan your wedding.
5.) Pull up your pants. The only time I want to see your underwear is if I'm taking them off you myself. Buy a belt, and look respectful. You can have all the swag you want, but do it with your pants up. Seriously.

Dear Females,
1.) Look before you sit on the toilet. So what if the guy leaves the seat up, at least he's not peeing on the seat you have to sit on. If you fall in, its from your own stupidity.
2.) Let the man play his video games. If you're busy pinning on pinterest clothes you'll never get, food you wont make, and ways to clean your house that will never happen, then he can game. Seriously...he should have his man time. You don't want him to get bored of you right?
3.) Don't compare your man to the guys in chick flicks...every guy is romantic in his own way and that is so much better than anything Nicholas Sparks can write.
4.)  Don't have double standards in a relationship. If you can have male friends, then he can have female friends. I understand that it makes you jealous, but its only fair. He gets jealous of your guy friends to ya know. If you're that worried, ask him if he's gonna hang out with other females, then to do it in a co-ed group setting, but only if your willing to do the same for him. Be equals, not controlling.
5.) Sexist jokes are funny. Now get back in the kitchen, I'm pretty sure you have a sammich to finish making.

Day 17: How you hope your future will be like

Questions about the future are way over done. I swear I've answered this one a lot. Anyways, I'm going to become a mad scientist that starts World War Z...but because I'm the first Zombie, it becomes completely impossible to kill me because I've morphed into this super Zombie creature all because I put a few too many bath salts in my bath trying to relax after a long night in my evil lab. And of course it wouldn't be sick an twisted with out a love story tied into the plot...as the love of my life gets Zombified...he isn't some immortal Zombie like me so he gets killed, and so I go on this rampage trying to avenge him, Zombifing any human I come across, and right as I reach the one who kill shot my love I get captured by the government, who has discovered a cure to the Zombie epidemic, its string cheese, I dont know why, it just is, but because I've been a super Zombie for so long my body cant handle being Humified again, so I explode out of pressure, then the janitors have to clean up my Zombie guts...but one of them accidentally ingests the Zombie virus from my remains...and the whole Epidemic starts all over again...but since it started at the source of the cure, there is no stopping it this time and all of humanity is screwed. Yup...the future looks bright. ;D

Day 16: Short term goals for this month and why?

I really want to pass my French class...cause well I cant afford to fail it. I'd also really like to go on a date, like get asked out, picked up, go do something fun, and get dropped off with a goodnight kiss...cause dates are fun. And I also wanna pay all my bills on time...cause that's always good to do. And that's all I can really think of.

Day 15: Something you dont leave the house without

I'm always wearing underwear when I leave the house. True story. ;)

Day 14: A TV show your currently addicted to

This has always been one of my favorite TV shows...and I started rewatching the series on Netflix...and now I'm watching it in like every free moment possible....seriously. I'm addicted to it. =)

Day 13: A picture of your favorite band or artist

30 Seconds to Mars. Favorite band. I love them. Best way to blow off steam is for me to listen to them.

Day 12: Your current relationship, if single discuss how single life is

So...my boyfriend does this adorable thing where he doesn't exist. Its so cute how he's always not waiting for me at home. And the way we don't go out on dates! I just love that! Oh, and the crawling into bed alone at night not falling asleep in his arms and the not waking up to his face first thing in the morning...jeez its just so wonderful...his non existence is just grand! And when I check my phone and there aren't any texts from him...its nice to know someone's not thinking about me! All the things I don't get to do with him...he just has a way with romance...the way he doesn't do it. Doesn't he just sound great! I love him! So much...-.-

Day 11: A picture of your favorite memory

I don't really have a favorite memory but I have a time that was my favorite. A couple years ago...I was really truly happy...that smile on my face was real...I had motivation to go get things done...I want that back more than anything...I want to be happy again...but things right now...no matter how hard I try...just aren't happy...but I'm hoping that in time that smile will come back to me. 

Day 10: A photo of your favorite place to eat

I know this probably meant like an actual place to eat at such as a restaurant...but when it all comes down to it...my favorite place to eat is at home on my couch...I'm a lazy person and I like my couch...well I really don't like my couch its ugly...but its comfy...and my favorite place to eat. =)
I wish I had a cuter couch tho...like the one in the picture. 

Day 9: A photo of the item you last purchased

So this really couldn't have come on a better day...I totally just bought a happy meal so I could get a Pokemon toy! =D

Yes, I'm a nerd! ^_^

Day 8: Your dream wedding

Me standing at the alter across from the love of my life waiting for the moment that we say "I do." My dream wedding involves me marrying my best friend. Nothing would be more perfect.

Day 7: A photo of an animal that you'd love to keep as a pet

 I would love to have a Black Panther. Its adorable as a baby.

 And beautiful full grown. I've always love Black Panthers.

And that's probably why I adore my baby kitty. He's a little panther at heart. =) 

Day 6: A song to match your mood

Hmmmm...I'm trying to figure out my mood. Right at this moment I'm tired, bored, stressed out, slightly depressed, and I kinda just want to be left alone. So...now I need a song to match this mood.
I think I have the song that matches this mood. Lost by Katy Perry...pretty much sums up my feelings right now.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4kvD-QN_0LE

"Have you ever been so lost
Known the way and still so lost
Caught in the eye of a hurricane
Slowly waving goodbye like a pageant parade
So sick of this town pulling me down"

Yeah...that feels like me right now. 

Day 5: What makes you different from everyone else?

This one is difficult. I'm know I'm not normal, but then again who is? Its one of those things where I'm human and I understand that. I'm not perfect. I'm vain. I'm goofy and serious all at the same time. I'll make mistakes. I'll do good things too. I follow my heart instead of my head. I'll have my moments where I actually do think. I can be aggressive and assertive. I go for what I want. But those are human traits. We all have a personality. And I could say that is what makes me different. But that's a given. Every body has those human traits that when put together and used it makes them their own individual person. And that could be why I'm different. But I don't think that's why. I have the human traits that everyone else does. The compassion, the irrationality, the impulsiveness, the obsessing, and the vulnerability. I'm a liar, and a cheater, and I'm manipulative. But I'm also caring, and understanding, and I'm passionate. I think what makes me different from everyone else is that I recognize who I am, and I keep learning my strengths and my weaknesses and I keep trying to be better and when I fail I keep going. I'm human and what makes me different is because I admit to it.    

Day 4: Your favorite photograph of your best friend

 So my best friend is my little brother. And I just love how crazy awesome he is.

 I'm not sure if I have a favorite picture of him.

 He's pretty much crazy awesome in every picture he takes!

 Even if he's just a little baby.

Or a 15 year old boy.

He is just all around amazing...and my best friend!

Day 3: Your idea of the perfect first date

I think the idea of the perfect date is more of a feeling. When you first get picked up by the person and you open the door and you see them and you get all fluttery and nervous. And as you walk towards their car you wonder how this night is going to go. You don't want to do anything stupid but at the same time you want it to be memorable. And it has to be fun, no matter what you do, you never want to be boring. And when you're with them all you can do is smile. And you learn more about them. By seeing a movie or cooking together. Figuring out what makes a person them. Personality is something I like to learn on a first date. It doesn't matter what we're doing, just as long as it really expresses us. So that we can find out if there's ever going to be a second date. My idea of a perfect first date is pretty much figuring out if we're compatible, if he's going to give me butterflies every time I see him. If I'm able to be crazy or weird and it doesn't matter. The perfect first date should make a person happy and feel that connection. So like I said its more of a feeling.

Day 2: Your favorite movie

I love this movie! I think its my favorite Angelina Jolie role. I would love to play that role. Its a really powerful role. And some people joke that I'm sociopath anyways. ;) Probably my favorite line:
"Playing the villain, baby, just like you want. I try to give you everything you want."
Angelina Jolie is amazing. 

Day 1: Your favorite song

My favorite song is The Kill by 30 Seconds to Mars. I love it. I only really listen to this song when I'm upset or angry. It's perfect for that.When I first started to listen to this song, its cause I was feeling really down about myself and this song just let me release some of that self hatred. And it still works for that reason. And I know that's why I love this song. It's my favorite because I can just release so much emotion by listening and singing along. This song has helped me get through the worst of times. I don't know what I would do without this song.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8yvGCAvOAfM

"Come break me down, bury me, bury me. I am finished with you. Look at my eyes, you're killing me, killing me. All I wanted was you."

Its such a beautiful song...if you can relate to it.

Here We Go Again!

So...I know I sorta fell behind on the last 30 day challenge, and my goal for this one is to actually post every day, but then again it's called a challenge for a reason. I just really like to do them. Its very thought provoking...and totally a time waster...but it's an outlet of expression, and I love it! So...here I go again. =) This months challenge, any one care to join?

Day 30: One thing you're excited for

In all honesty, I'm not really excited for anything. I don't know why but things just aren't too exciting. So...I really don't know what else to put in this post. I mean I try to be excited for things but really I'm not. My life is too boring to be exciting. I'm kinda lame like that. 

Day 29: Five weird things that you like

1.) Eating pickles with chocolate syrup. I love it! Haha! Its a lot better than it sounds. =)
2.) All things Dinosaurs! Especially little plastic Dino toys! And Dino chicken nuggets! And Dino fruit snacks!!! I love Dinos! =) 
3.) Robots! I don't know why...but I wish I had one. It would be awesome!!! I would name him Gregory. I like that name. And it would be cool cause then he could talk in his robot voice. I really want a robot! =D
4.) Wearing outfits where everything matches. Like super detailed matching. Like spend hundreds on it. I like doing that. Its kinda my OCD. I've spent hours putting together an outfit. More than the average high maintenance girl. 
5.) Gamer Guys. ;) I like them...even though they are a little weird. I think its super cute when guys get way into their games. I can watch a guy game for hours...trust me, I know. As long as they don't let it become an obsession, I like them. They are just weird...it a totally cute way! =)

Day 28: Some where you'd like to move to or visit

I would love to live in San Francisco.

To live in a cute little place like this one.

To ride this around the city.

To visit the wharf whenever I want.

Spend hours in this building and others like it.

True Story. <3

Day 27: A quote you try and live by

I don't know what it is about this quote...but it makes me like myself more. It reminds me that I'm a beautiful mess. I guess it kinda fuels my behavior. It makes me think about being fun, having fun, and loving what your doing. The way my mind works, and thinks, and understands things is different, its not normal, but its my own personal genius. It works as an inspiration, to be who I am not who others think I should be.